Does anyone out there remember
when John Lennon suggested that we “Give peace a chance?” If you are under 60,
ask your grandpa. He’ll know. Or if grandpa is gone, ask me. I know, and some
of us are out there beating the same old drum.
There is no one who would disagree that peace is a good thing, except maybe
Attila the Hun and some of those deceased nuisances. It is a good idea, and its
time has come.
I became interested in World Peace Gardens when I read in the paper that Daniel
Pettegrew and Janice Brooks-Nichter were running the operation. Both of them
are friends of mine. Daniel is a mystic, a deep thinker who can turn thought to
action. Janice is a mover and a shaker. If you want something done – anything –
convince Jan that it is a good idea, and she will take over and move it
forward.
World Peace Gardens is a work in progress. There is no written plan published
with copies handed out. The main requirement is that you are serious about giving
peace a chance. All observations and suggestions are welcome and considered.
The meetings, held Sundays at 11:00 at Green Valley Spa, have a generous and
welcoming attitude.
I go way back. I am probably the senior old hippie present. The ideas promoted
at these gatherings as familiar to me. You need to be at peace with yourself.
If you are not, maybe we can help you become so. You need to share love and
kindness to all around you. Bit by bit, person by person, if everyone embraces
peace, proselytes and practices, others will see it and want to come aboard.
To demonstrate that there are many roads to peace, at our meeting last week, a
medicine woman named Feather made small bags filled with herbs brought in by
participants. The fragrant bags are for use when you get all buggered-up. Just
smell your bag, and it can relieve your tension.
A young man named Taylor Stuart, age 14, made peace symbols out of clay, rock,
and plants, and distributed them to the people. Some are to be used as
necklaces or pins, and some as decorations and reminders of what we are trying
to do.
Glass artist Cheryl Collins came to the meeting to share some of her excellent
work, which includes the “Healing Towers” in front of the IHC Hospital. These
are ancient and modern symbols for healing, both beautiful and moving. She has
also created mandalas for the Kayenta Labyrinth – soothing, peaceful, beautiful
works for you to contemplate as you walk the labyrinth.
Over time, there have been peace initiatives with modest success. Remember the
Greek ladies who took action when the men were gone to war? After war, the men
would come home to wash their underwear and sharpen their swords, and then they
were gone again. It took some cooperation and decisive action by the women, but
their plan worked – for a while. The idea was to deny any conjugal relations to
the men until they quit going to war and stuck around home and did all the
honey-dos that had accumulated over time.It worked because men are… well, men; but it failed in the long-run because
coercion just doesn’t pay off.
A feature of our meetings – open to everyone – is the talking circle. In the
circle you say what is on your mind, what bothers you or what you need help
with. Axe-grinding is not allowed. Debates are not encouraged, as in pro-life
vs. pro-choice. Euphemisms are encouraged. Putting the best possible face on
your concerns and goals is a good thing. The positive is what we are after –
seeing the best, keeping our eyes up and thoughts clear of hatred, envy or
discord.
It is a proven scientific fact that kind thoughts, generous actions, and acceptance
of others are good for your mental health. One is not required to agree with the
views of others, but allowing them to exist is essential. Then, maybe, you will
be given an opportunity to help those carrying the burden of harmful emotions to
experience the world in a different way.
If you want to give peace a
chance, please come and see how we do it.
This
column is provided by World Peace Gardens, a non-profit organization promoting
oneness and world peace. World Peace Gardens
meets every Sunday at Green Valley Spa in St.
George starting at 11AM at 1871 Canyon View
Drive. For more information log onto the website at: www.WorldPeaceGardens.org